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After Psychotherapy

Insights from 30+ years in the profession

Category: Shame/Narcissism

Celebrity and Romantic Love: “Meaning” in the Modern World

In modern American society, a large number of people pursue the twin cults of celebrity and romantic love as the sole sources of meaning in life.

Published February 9, 2011
Categorized as Love and Hatred, Shame/Narcissism, Society and Culture Tagged Celebrities, narcissism, Romantic Love

Different Types of Depression

A discussion of three underlying dynamics in clinical depression: unconscious rage, a drastically fragmented self and toxic levels of shame.

Published February 4, 2011
Categorized as Anxiety, Depression and Bipolar Disorder, Points of Departure, Shame/Narcissism Tagged Basic shame, depression, disintegration anxiety, false self, Psychotherapy

Defenses Against Shame

Narcissism, blaming and contempt — the three core defenses against shame — are illustrated with clinical material from the author’s psychotherapy practice.

Published January 29, 2011
Categorized as Defense Mechanisms, Detours, Shame/Narcissism Tagged Basic shame, Defensiveness, narcissism

Narcissism vs. Authentic Self-Esteem

Authentic self-esteem is not something that can be obtained through outside sources such as praise or compliments but rather grows from living up to our own standards and expectations so that we feel ourselves to be a person we esteem.

Published January 17, 2011
Categorized as Destinations, Self-Esteem and Self-Sabotage, Shame/Narcissism Tagged narcissism, Self-esteem

A Portrait of Narcissistic Personality Disorder in ‘The Social Network’ (2010)

An examination of Mark Zuckerberg’s character in the film ‘The Social Network’ as a way to understand Narcissistic Personality Disorder and pathological narcissism.

Published January 14, 2011
Categorized as Shame/Narcissism, Society and Culture Tagged narcissism

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