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After Psychotherapy

Insights from 30+ years in the profession

Category: Points of Departure

The basic emotional issues that drive us, and their implications for the most common psychological problems: depression, anxiety, shame, low self-esteem, etc.

How to Tell if You’re Projecting

Knowing how to identify when we’re projecting is extremely difficult, but an overly intense focus upon the behavior or attributes of another person may be a sign.

Published February 23, 2011
Categorized as Defense Mechanisms, Points of Departure, Rules of the Road Tagged Projection

The Tenacity of Defenses

Psychological defenses are deeply etched neural pathways, like deep ruts in a well-traveled road, impossible to remove. Under psychological and emotional pressure, they will always come automatically and feel like the easiest, most natural response.

Published February 19, 2011
Categorized as Defense Mechanisms, Points of Departure, Rules of the Road Tagged Defensiveness, Psychotherapy

Different Types of Depression

A discussion of three underlying dynamics in clinical depression: unconscious rage, a drastically fragmented self and toxic levels of shame.

Published February 4, 2011
Categorized as Anxiety, Depression and Bipolar Disorder, Points of Departure, Shame/Narcissism Tagged Basic shame, depression, disintegration anxiety, false self, Psychotherapy

Emotional Dependency and Stealth Control

Behind the apparent helplessness of people who suffer from extreme emotional dependency often lies a a secret and unacknowledged fantasy of controlling everybody around them and coercing them to adopt the role of caretakers.

Published January 2, 2011
Categorized as Detours, Points of Departure, Relationship Issues, The Psychotherapy Relationship Tagged Neediness, Psychotherapy, Relationship Issues

Insufficient Mind in Anxiety Attacks and Disorders

A mental inability to bear intense emotions often lies at the heart of anxiety attacks and disorders, where the person experiencing anxiety feels threatened by (and in danger of disintegration under the pressure of) emerging and unknown emotions.

Published December 15, 2010
Categorized as Anxiety, Points of Departure, Unbearable Emotion Tagged Anxiety, Psychotherapy, Trauma

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